All I need to begin a great day driving to a shoot is a nice day with sunshine and my tunes in a car. Or maybe catch up on a podcast or two. What I remember about this day on my way to Brighton was how long it took to get to them for some event or other that was happening that day. Understandably I got to them later than planned but one thing you can rely on with me is that I will turn up and that is what I did at their home in Brighton.
I was really keen to shoot them because they were ideal in what we look for in couples. In many ways they are a normal couple, not modelly, good looking and natural with it. They're a bit rock n roll with tattoos (all the rage these days). They have a child. Steves second family from what I gather. Doing porn is a bit of a departure to their everyday life and gives them a chance to do all the naughty porno things they might not get time to do everyday so I imaginethis is a bit of mischievous escapism for them too
Bluebell had the typical insecurities that women with body issues have…Yeah whats new there eh? The first thing I found attractive about her was her personality, warm friendly and inviting and as the conversation warmed up I can tell she was a sexy person that probably leaned more to liking girls but wouldnt mind doing porn with other men if Steve let her. Steve is a typical bloke in that he doesnt mind Bluebell liking girls cos he gets to enjoy it, but his missus with other guys?…You just got to see the video to see how uneasy he was at the suggestion, though he tries to be open minded and fails as Bluebell starts picking holes in his double standards and this is when we are in the zone of Real Couples.
Its this social interaction that reveeals a lot about them. Theyre in love, they get on they fight, they shag and this is truly wonderful stuff to film for my pornumentary. I always find that sex tells you a lot more about people than just their interactions together.
Steve admitted to liking her feet, not in a fetishistic way but as a part of the whole package. He also likes stockings and nice shiny black high heels, hence why she was wearing them. He wasnt fussed about the things she was insecure about. He is a real geezer in that way.
We spent some time talking before I set up and I told them they can start whenever they wanted and do whatever they wanted to do.
Dont act like porn stars.
Just be yourself.
I dont even mind the awkward starts beccause, lets face it, with a guy there like me filming it wasnt going to be normal was it? So kissing, fondling, teasing, nibbling and al that other stuff is a great way to start. Its like watching a scene unravel and build up to something intense.
The thing that is characteristic of these shoots is the casual banter that makes watching it a more satisfying experience than just watching peope fucking in itself. Not that I have any issue with that either but my point is, talk gives the sex more substance and adds something to the watchability of a scene as you get to know the people vicariously through watching.
When it gets going , thats what makes the build up so special. Real sex isnt perfect. its sometimes awkward. Carpet burns are all too common so for me this is what made their scene special.
Even when Steve shot his load on her face it revealed they were in the porn way but Im sure Steve, like many guys is into that too. Theres something quite horny about shooting all your joy juice over your partners lovely face. Its probably more explicit than a cream pie. Some seem to think this is degrading to women, I'm not so sure. I think if it feels right then go with it. Some women enjoy being degraded but lets not get the feminazis going on that eh? There sure is plenty of men ho like being degraded by women too. Where you at!?
Like some women I'm not too sure Bluebell was keen on it but then, like a some women, they do things to please their men sexually than just for their own enjoyment but its not as if Steve doesnt let her enjoy the occasional bisexual dalliance with ladies she likes too.
Steve has some hist0ry in porn from 10 years before and came back into it to introduce Bluebell to the idea. She was his muse for photographs and videos and admitted to knowing of me for years and thought he'd give it a go since I was filming couples. They enjoyed the experience so much they can't wait for us to do another one.
Maybe next time Steve can hang back and enjoy watching his lady with another woman before getting stuck in. That as they say is another shoot on the cards. I wonder who the lucky girl might be. We'll have to wait and see.