I did threaten to do this and so far in 36 hours theres been no objections to me donning the white coat, thick immed spectacles and puffing casually on a pipe as I endeavour to answer that most burning of questions
Why do men or for that matter women cheat in relationships?
The answer to this is complex and my answer should not serve as a blanket one size fits all solution for both sexes. Lack of attention, lack of love. The sheer thrill of mischief and hopefully not getting caught because there is something just extra delicious in having a frivolous encounter that is hard , fast and dirty to make you feel alive and if you have a conscience, incredibly guilty depending on how much you love the partner you cheated on.
The biggest insult to the offended partner is when the person you have cheated with is lesser in looks and therein is where logic follows that the motive was not for lack of anything at home. Some people just have a need to fuck up a picture perfect life for no real discernible reason
If you are that rare kind of person who would absolutely never cheat then you are a rare breed indeed but to be brutally truthful: Most people on the planet will! To coin the phrase “A hard on has no conscience” seems to be apt here but if you are looking beyond the surface of why men and women really cheat then it could be simply down to personal insecurities like low self esteem or a need for self affirmation that we still have what it takes to attract a partner or worse and more brutal: You simply wanted to fuck someone else who isn't your partner!
Here's a thought. Rather than cheat, have you considered getting your partner involved and making it a threesome? While youre at it, have you eer considered getting it filmed? I know a guy who runs a site that features liberated couples like you.
Hmm that gives me an idea for my next blog update….
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