Who wants to attend a sexy party and porn shoot next weekend?

June 7th, 2015

Saturday 13th June from 10.30pm

You are invited to be on the VIP guest list for an exclusive erotic themed party hosted by London's favourite playboy, Lord Edward Davenport. Watch Gazzman film an adult scene for his latest Playboy TV film as the guests bump to the rhythm of a late night after party at an exlusive penthouse address near Bond St. in central London. Dress code is smart dark suit or preferably dinner suit and for the camera shy we will issue masks to give an “Eyes Wide Shut” theme to proceedings. Confirmed stars attending include Lexi Lowe, Sam Bentley, Sienna Day & more! Bring a Government issued photo id so we can photograph you with it held up against your face to provide an ID shot that proves your age. You will also need to sign a release form as we will be filming the whole event. So remember: smart evening dress only, sign a release & no ID means no entry, no exceptions!
There will be a limited free bar forearly birds. Don't miss this months hottest ticket – register now to avoid disappointment as numbers are strictly limited.

Address will be supplied on the day.

RSVP to bigbaddavexxx@gmail.com with your real name (and stage name) and contact number as strictly guest list only

Thanks BBD on behalf of Gazzman

Q&A: Is Everyone At It Now? (Home made sex tapes)

April 19th, 2015

I reckon there are more people making sex tapes now than any other time in history. The age of the selfie and the wide variety of technology has normalised people wanting to see themselves and others engaged in sex.

Nothing endorses the home made/ amateur porn movie  than the celebrity sex tape. Even theyre at it, from Katie Price to Kim Kardashan, Paris Hilton and more but what makes me suspicious as a producer for the best part of 20 years is…How do they legally put it online without consent?

Since I came into the “”porn business”, the signed model release was drummed into me as an important aspect to get right more if you were going to sell it. The wording was iron clad in its clarity and in the producers favour for the  sole purpose of selling it. When I see headlines such as sex tapes stolen and the fact it can be traced back to the uploader has me wondering if the victims were  complicit for financial or exposure motives or  people really have no idea of the legal infrastructure in place putting adult content on line. Those in the trade will know this as 2257. Being inviolation of this has cost sites like Girls Gone Wild milions of dollars in fines

It does feel like we (in the frontline of defence of the adult business in the absence of those unaware of whats going on or dont care) have taken up the baton from the previous sexual revolution to wage war on a new platform.


Now with censorship and regulation coming down heavily in the UK and the laws passed saying all content online has to be legally compliant to R18 standards it does make you wonder what people get up to on their own sex tapes without being aware of where they stand legally with it if they sell it online with the various platforms available to them or evn if they have set up a website as a couple like House Wife Kelly

If you are interested in the adult business and want to know whats going on with how the business works from the people who are in it then I have set up  The Naked Truth Podcast especially for this but if you are angry about being told what you can and can't do sexually with your consenting partner (s) if you make your own video available online in the UK then you should sign up to Sex and Censorship

What does all this  mean for the future? Well, it might sound far fetched at this point but with ATVOD regulating websites in the UK  and issuing stiff fines to sites that failed to notify  closing down without contesting the fines, I share  the prediction that in the next two years that the average person (that means me and you) making a  website, no matter the subject, will have to pay to be licensed and regulated by ATVOD in the same way you already pay the BBC for a license t watch its channels.

It literally means anyone with video content on their site will be regulated in the same way  the BBFC issues licenses that have too be paid for to sell DVD and Blu Ray but in this case, its limited to media online. Thats why the law pu tinto effect in Decemmber 2014 is called the  Audio Visual Media Services Regulation also known as AVMS Regulations. Remember that face sitting protest at parliament in December 2014? If you saw past the antics which was used to draw attention tothe protest and listened to the speakers you'll know were I'm going with this

As for the tube sites, there are plans to block those who fail to implement age verification for age sensitive content which might  make webmasters in the UK happy  for “levelling the playing field” but it is an illusion as all this means is all business will go off shore. Why would anyone want to give their credit card details to  admit to watching porn if they dont have to jump through these hoops with sites based overseas?

It would be interesting to see how this will impact on YouTube owned by the mighty Google who have outrightly refused to comply with ATVOD  as did the Press but if in theory tube sites in the UK have to legally comply then it would mean they would become chargeable because age verification is going to cost the company or the user. Either way you can bet Gogle will get its money back on either option

So if making money from your amateur produced videos is a concern to you and the new laws are an infringement of your civil liberties the question you have to ask yourself is: What are you going to do about it?

Worth thinking about before you put your videos online. Or in the case of the headlines above, someone else does

Housewife Kelly & Shawn podcast

April 12th, 2015

Click pic or links to go to the site

Massive thanks to House Wife Kelly and Shawn for doing this special edition podcast. They owed me nothing to do it but were only to happy to oblige me.

The reason I engaged them was for sheer practicality. I first saw Kellys sexy pics on Twitter and when I found out she was in the US realised I wasnt ging to shoot them anytime soon but decided to showcase their adventures  and brought it home here by way of this podcast. After all, it seems there are more sexy couples like Kelly and Shawn filming their own swinging adventures as platforms like Adult Work and Clips4Sale  makes this opportunity accesible to them so in a way, this couple are very much sign of the times in that they are working exclusively for themselves and can pick and choose who they want to work for.

Its not as if she hasnt had offers but she explains her reasons on the podcast.

What does this mean for the future of Real Couples? I'm not sure yet but one thing I  have accepted since the day I started shooting this series is that the present business model was not going to last forever as technology came down in price and the age of the selfie was on the rise it was only fair the porn landscape was going to change accordingly. The plumeting cost of technology democratised the porn business and there seems to be more people in all levels of it now than there ever has been.

Click the pic or links to visit the site

It really feels like everyone is at it now. Even girls who just webcam are in denial of being in the porn business but they are whether they choose to admit it or not.

Kelly sure is a good looking woman though and she has two sites that showcase her adventures. House Wife Kelly is her main site featuring her swinging adventure wifestyle videos and pics with swinger  encounters with guys and girls as filmed and joined in by her husband Shawn. Her other site is KellysFoot Fetish and if you listen to the podcast we talk about them as a couple , their sites and sexy adventures . Their sites have been around since 2006 and how it all came about was from a collection of videos Shawn amassed from the moment he got his first video camera. Listen to the podcast and enjoy.

Episode #238 : Nicole & Dan

March 17th, 2015

Press play to listen to podcast. Click pic or links to take you to the scene on site.

Nicole stars wth her fella to make him a porn star


I did this shoot about 3 weeks ago on a Sunday afternoon as a favour to Nicole and Dan because he enquired about getting into the porn business with a company that was going to charge him. This company that shall remain unnamed hasnt got the best track record given the amount of complaints levelled at them on a fan based website. What I offered was a chance for Dan to do a video as proof of his ability and this he chose to do with his long term partner, Nicole. To be fair, I would charge too because I wouldnt want to incur the expense of paying a girl if the guy couldnt do the job and nor would I pay if they could because that kind of shoot is not within the scope of what i do here ar Real Couples.

Dans long term girlfriend agreed to do the video with him not just to help him out but you can bet deep down it meant something to her to be the first to take his porn star cherry. As it turns out she is totally cool with him doing porn with other girls because I asked her.

Now most of you watching this will feel their motive for doing this is just for the money but that is not a good enough reason for doing it. If its just about the money I can guarantee you will FAIL! 100 per cent! Even if you managed to get through the audition I can guarantee your career will not last long beyond you gettng bored with it real quickly or simply disillusioned by it all.

I've been around this business long enough to know from experience. You still need to interact with the person you are performing with and if there is no chemistry whatsoever then what you are left with is a cold soulless fuck. If there is nothing to be had out of that then in your mind you're thinking about the money but your heart and head are not into what you are doing and you will FAIL!

That is where most guys fail.

I've seen guys succeed with girls who werent interested in them smply because they loved fucking and thats the key to a potentially good performer:You have to love fucking. It's not about being in love with the person you are doing porn with. That in tself can kill a peroformance if it means you are doing it out of “love” because it involves emotions that cause people to be confused by what they are doing.

That said, Nicole and Dans relationship has an interesting dynamic in that they have the trust and communication. How long this will last depends on how she feels as he gets on with it. Its a complicated business where emotions are concerned but very simple in what the act is in and of itself.

I could write a long essay outlining the various ways ths could blow out sideways and very few examples in how it could enhace their relationship beyond financial benefit and voyeurism but who am I to tell two grown adults who have been together over 7 years already with a child what to do.

I've seen how this can end for Corinna and Andy but yet, the strength of their relationship has endured this hurdle and they are still together years later. A similar situation with them was when Corinna filmed her man Andy fucking porn star girls like Suzie Best he was blind to the fact she didnt care and when a woman tells you she doesnt care thats an alarm bell to problems you need to pay attention to.

There are no guarantees Dan will be a great asset to the business beyond this video with his partner. It is easier or can be harder to work with your partner on a video. My faith in Dan being a reiable performer is based on a few things. He is European and has less of the mental baggage that comes with us British folks getting naked on screen and the other is, as he puts it, “on the rock scene” as a drummer and is used to getting naked and to add to that, he also has the personality to be reliable because (to quote a saying): “A hard on has no conscience” I don't think Dan wold waste time questioning the stuff that makes most people falter at the first hurdle and thats as good a reference I can give at this point.

If youre a producer looking for new talent then give the man a go. Just get in touch with me by email or on twitter

Special Interest Cinema

March 5th, 2015

Whats all this about you ask? A bit odd I know but why do what everyone else is doing with blogs when you can be a bit different…Well not too different. the movies selected will reflect the adult nature of what we are about hence the special interest.

We're not going to suggest movies you can find elsewhere as in on TV or rentals on NetFlix. We've got a special page for this new feature too if you want to check it out for other movies. I'll keep my eyes open for any other relvant titles of interest.

All you have to do is check out this page and pay for the movie you want to watch and BAM! You can start watching right away and click on expand if you want to watch in full screen on your TV or monitor. Enjoy

Does Your Man Prefer Porn To You?

January 31st, 2015


I had a flash answer to the people that got in touch with me to do Why Men Use Porn documentary above : “To wank! What else do you need porn for?! Send me the checque and see ya later” Laughs aside, the programme was a lot more deeper than that. Well that was the intention anyway. Or to put it in a relationship context: Why Does Your Partner Prefer Porn To You?

The fact he is still with you must indicate he still loves you and doesnt want to lose you for  sincere or selfish reasons. Only you can determine that from his actions if you are brutally honest with yourself . Especially if you are the bread winner and he is dependent on that, but telling women to cut these guys loose is like telling a crack addict to jack the crack in. It's not that simple but sticking to what I do know assuming you both still care for each other (and you know this by the things they do) then what it tells me is that something is lacking in your relationship.

I single guys out for this because I have never heard of a woman yet who has been addicted to porn who couldnt get someone in to sort her out.

Porn doesnt judge the end user. That pretty girl bent over spreading her herself available to you to use as you wish has no idea who you, the end user is. You bought her in a magazine or DVD and she is yours! All yours!

That's ok for temporary relief but its not ever going to be more rewarding than that. Even if you got to met the girl you might not even be her type and heaven forfend you do, you will not impress upon her how hard she made you come from being an admirer of her work. You still need the feel of real flesh, a living breathing woman that wants you. Some reciprocation.Some feeling. If you don't then you simply shouldn't be in a relationship if all she exists for is to look after your needs. The two most important elements of a relationship is trust and commmunication so if you are so dependent on porn then you should be open enough to discuss this with your partner.

If your partner doesnt like to get freaky  like the porn you enjoy she will either understand this is your  thing and let you get on with it or even better, you can enjoy it together but I aint met a woman yet that lets things go like this  so if this is an issue then it needs addressing. Fast!

Some men I've noticed blame it on the porn for ruining their lives without considering the blame is due to something they are missing in their own lives. Couples have richer relationships if they are honest about their feelings and even respect each others fantasies which is what works for couples who play with people they bring into their relationships but if you are dependent on porn most of the time and can't talk to your partner about it then this might be whats wrong with your relationship. Don't blame it on the porn!

Just don't watch porn while you are doing it because women are not stupid. No woman wants to compete with what you are watching even if you can happily enjoy doing it if she watches something that gets her going.

Trust and communication hath understanding. If this is not in place then your relationship is in serious trouble

NOTE: These views are my own and should not be misconstrued as professional or expert advice

The Face Sitting, Ben Dover Podcast and Partying

December 24th, 2014

I must apologise for my absence here. I've resisted mixing my politics with my porn up until now but I feel the time has come to bring this to the attention of anyone who is interested in what I've been up to and why I do what I do. I can assure you I have been nothing but busy being active in all things adult business even if I've not been shooting for Real Couples. I can assure you that we have plenty couples ready and raring to go when I do get back into shooting. I still have updates to come but things have been uncertain in recent months with the new changes in the law. While I think most of it doesnt apply to me its still an indicator that they are coming, not just for me but for everyone in porn, even the amateur enthusiasts since the law effectively targets all producers of adult content. It's been interesting observing the changes as they happen but I won't bore you with the details. I have the Naked Truth Podcast for that. If you are interested I will be focussing more attention in that area as I have with The Real Couples Podcast and in the last two weeks, The Ben Dover Podcast Show: Aged & Confused. You might notice that Ben Dover has joined the same Real Sex Pass network of sites, so all you fans of Ben Dover can mosey on over and get Ben, Real Couples and all the other sites in the network for the price of one signup.



At the Paul Raymond Awards with Nichi Hodgson & Jerry Barnett

I was also at that face sitting protest outside Parliament on December the 1st which was run by  Charlotte Rose @_Charlie_rose who is a sex worker and trainer running for MP.  Sex & Censorship seemed to be the only campaign speaking out against the blatant censorship and reining in of the adult sex business. The real danger of this is, as Myles Jackman@ObscenityLawyer coined the term: “Porn is the canary in the coal mine” meaning that it is the first freedom to go because it is in the forefront of free speech by virtue of it being at the centre of most peoples moral compass. Look beyond that and you can see the dangers that lay ahead with censorship. This means control of the internet and infringement of your privacy which they try to instill that fear in you all the time with the war on terrorism so yes, its a scary time indeed and porn is in the way of that control of the internet.

Without getting too much into it the government should run the country and stop interfering with peoples sexual habits or what they want to watch. Have a look at the video and if you feel strongly about it as I do then follow Charlotte Rose, Sex & Censorship and Myles Jackman.

Where do I fit in with this? I support them by doing what I do to help convey the message where I can via the videos and the podcasts. I actively support anyone who is doing something to defend, protect and promote our business in a positive light.

With Charlotte Rose between the speeches and face sitting at Westminster

I've been in the centre of some arguments and every time I paused to weigh up the relevance of those arguments I arrived at the same conclusion that most of attacks on the sex business are simply because people do not know much about the porn business. Left to their own thoughts it's a dark ugly world we inhabit and that thought is conveyed right up the ladder to administrative government quangoes like ATVOD and OFCOM trying to regulate the internet under the guise of protecting the children and have no idea of how this business works so they impose their will by their poorly tought out regulations and order us to obey rules that are totally unworkable for business like outlawing a slew of sexual acts designed to disrupt and destroy the adult business while allowing the rest of the world to go unregulated because its outside of their legal jurisdiction.

Hows that protecting children from seeing porn when they can see it for free on tube sites that don't have any  age verification controls beyond an admission to click on a button stating you are over 18?

Making sex acts like face sitting, dirty talking and squirting illegal is like preventing a chef from using certain ingredients in the kitchen to cook a tasty meal.

Having spent many years in this business and 10 years on Real Couples it was a no brainer that I would get involved with the various campaigns to oppose the new legislation. If we don;t then the adult business will decline further than it is now and if opportunists with alternative means think they'll clean up, they should consider that this legislation is set up to outlaw that too so do get involved now before its too late. It was complacency and the belief that this law was so ridiculous that it would never happen that allowed it to slip through so stay alert and watch this space for more info if you want to get involved and show your support.

The protest on Parliament did get attention and positive press.  Julian Huppert MP put in a motion to get the new laws annulled and ATVOD hassaid since that face sitting is OK but this is not enough to placate those who are against the act. We want the law repealed. The laws should be brought in line to recognise the changes in attitude and lifestyle today, not the Obscene Publications Act (OPA) that was set up for Lady Chatterleys Lover and Nabokovs Lolita back in the 50′s…Its 2015 and here we are still defending sexual civil liberties.

Believe me,  I never saw myself doing this campaigning and protesting stuff but here I am because I believe it has to be done if I am to continue my business of producing porn. What kind of scenes will I be shooting if I had to tell couples a whole list of things they can and can't do? Fans of the content will know that this is simply unworkable.



On another note, November is the month when adult video producers slow down productions and the parties and events begin. This year has been like party central. The biggest highlights were The Paul Raymond Awards which had an impressive turnout at The Spearmint Rhino. No night is complete without the usual protest from OBJECT banging on about #takedownfaketaxi  using it as a tool to promote unlicensed taxis and rapists. As per usual theyve got it all twisted and fail to see its called Fake Taxi because its not a real taxi service.

An equally swish night and more intimate affair was the TVX Babes launch party to promote their song “Coming For Christmas” which is a cheeky play on words for the festive season with some hot TVX babes Angel Long (she was on Real Couples 10 years ago), Victoria Summers, Jess West and the lead singer of the song Brooklyn Blue. The aim of this song with Porn Hub Records was to be the Christmas number one which I thought would've been a nice change to Band Aid 30 I thought it was really well produced and guess what? Its got that geezer Ben Dover banging the drums in it too! Not that you'd notice for all the pretty totty in it.

See? I told you I've been busy and this ain't  half of it.



Q&A: Why Do Men/ Women Cheat?

November 22nd, 2014

Could a threesome with your partner be an alternative to cheating?

I did threaten to do this and so far in 36 hours there's been no objections to me donning the white coat, thick rimmed spectacles and puffing casually on a pipe as I endeavour to answer that most burning question:

Why do men or for that matter women cheat in relationships?

The answer to this is complex and my answer should not serve as a blanket one size fits all solution for both sexes. Lack of attention, lack of love. The sheer thrill of mischief and hopefully not getting caught because there is something just extra delicious in having a frivolous encounter that is hard , fast and dirty to make you feel alive and if you have a conscience, incredibly guilty depending on how much you love the partner you cheated on.

The biggest insult to the offended partner is when the  person you have cheated with is lesser in looks and therein is where logic follows that the motive was not for lack of anything at home. Some people just have a need to fuck up a picture perfect life for no real discernible reason

If you are that rare kind of person who would absolutely never cheat then you are a rare breed indeed but to be brutally truthful: Most people on the planet will! To coin the phrase “A hard on has no conscience” seems to be apt here but if you are looking beyond the surface of why men and women really cheat then it could be simply down to personal insecurities like low self esteem or a need for self affirmation that we still have what it takes to attract a partner or worse and more brutal: You simply wanted to fuck someone else who isn't  your partner!

Here's a thought. Rather than cheat, have you considered getting your partner involved and making it a threesome? While youre at it, have you eer considered getting it filmed? I know a guy  who runs a site that features liberated couples like you.

Hmm that gives me an idea for my next blog update….

Search on Real Couples network of sites for threesomes   Many to choose from Click on the pic up top  if you want to go to the Vicki, Michelle & Jim scene on the site. If you want a more insightful answer then heres a link to an artcle

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Episode #237: Amy Latina & Jaz

November 19th, 2014


It seems meeting partners online through social networking and dating sites is all the rage these days. There are some exceptions to this rule. Like Jack who met Megan Coxxx at a party that got out of hand with the alcohol and had a failed gang bang where Jack ever so keen to make an impression, manned up to the task and delivered the goods. Or like Hayley & Paul who met in a mental hospital

What these couples have in common is finding out the girl they are with has done porn. Being a veteran of so many shoots I was in a position of experience to discuss this such to such a degree I consider myself a bit of an expert on the subject.

With this in mind I will endeavour to opine on those thought provoking questions that rarely if ever get asked in the hope that it may inspire discussion or even debate where dating and couples are concerned.

With Amy & Jazz their relationship appears strong and healthy because the trust and communication is there between them, even though Jazz admits at first his attraction was drawn to the possibility of sex of the standard that is expected of porn stars but knos that not to be the case now he is in the reality of a loving relationship. Instead Amy has included him in with her work ad he does all her pictures
and even stars in them with her which has enriched their relationship because no they can enjoy porn sex on camera and real sex off between themselves.

Who knows where that could lead?

UK Adult Producers Awards 2014

November 3rd, 2014

To see the FULL AWARDS VIDEO (that means with all the naughty rude bits left in) Go to: www.ukadultprodcerawards.com

I've been busy for being involved with the London Underground Party which hosted the UK Adult Producers Awards at The Loft Studios last month. It went really well considering the lull on the UK production scene the past 18 months which saw changes happening in the adult business that influenced the theme of this years party. Censorship which in turn lent itself to us calling the party by its name feeling that we were indeed being forced underground by the anti porn establishment.

To this end, it wasnt difficult to see why UKAP agreed to award Jerry Barnett a special “services to the industry award” for his work with Sex & Censorship. You can join, support and follow his campaigns at www.sexandcensorship.org and @pornpanic. I have shown support by lending my services as a cameraman and editor to some of his efforts which spawned my Naked Truth podcast which I use to disseminate industry relevant news

The aim of The London Underground party was to get as many people in the adult business to meet up, network, party and hopefully generate more business around the XBizEU event in London which took place late September over 4 days and nights. It was strictly an industry only event specifically for this. Judging by the party you might not even notice the industry needed an event for the fun we had on the night. It was all getting too serious in the wake of all the censorship, legislation and anti porn rhetoric of ISP filters and agenda driven anti porn campaigners for what is essentially all about fun. Or to use a favourite saying of mine: All this bullshit gets in the way of good quality wanking time.

Do check out our DVD selection from the winners and nominations on this awards video. If you want to buy DVDs then Your Choice is the only company I would recommend being that they are not just reliable but also fellow members of UKAP who helped sponsor the awards on the night as well

The video features the various guests who attended, the awards and after party in a nice little jam packed video running for 30 mins so kick back, relax with your favourite bevvie and enjoy.

For more info: Check the site here