UKAP Awards 2015 VIDEO

November 7th, 2015

I had a big hand in the recent UKAP Awards 2015 held at Proud Cabaret City on 16th September just around the corner from XBiz London at The Hilton Double Tree in Tower Hill, London, which was convenient because they held a 4 day convention there of which the UKAP (UK Adult Producers) Awards party was its second day event for a night of fun and entertainment with The Sex Workers Opera providing the entertainment before the show.

As for the show itself, here it is. It's the next best thing to being there on the night. I didnt win anything but it was nice to see couples there that have featured on the site. If you want to know more about the nominees and winners, podcasts etc then go to

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UKAP Awards 2015

September 22nd, 2015

To go to the official UKAP Awards Site Click image above Top webcam performer winner Kinky Dirty Bitch

Its that time of the year  when the circus comes to town in the form of XBiz London and the UKAP Awards 2015 smack bang in the midde of it. I've been involved wth this event even more so this year beyond just filming it which is a gig I took upon myself since 2013.

I was so involved this year  that planning and organising this event took over my life  overseeing the many things involved and while it was enjoyed by many with accolades and appraisals for a job well done for the venue etc it was far from perfect and thats because it was my first year stage managing an event I had no previous experience doing and was meant to have nothing to do with beyond filming and editing it.

This years event took place at Proud Cabaret City in the Tower Hill area of London which had rave reviews from Time Out Magazine. We initially had Brooklyn Blue, Lilly Roma and Kiki Minaj scheduled to host and present but such is this business we had to be prepared for anything to go wrong that the line up changed to Roxy Jezel and Lilly Roma with Ben Dover coming in at the last couple weeks and as the saying goes, the show must go on and it did and to be fair, it was still a fun night throughout the chaos. The various reasons ranged from shooting during the day, shooting in Ireland for Game Of Thrones no less and being late for the bad weather and even worse,  traffic in London

Despite it raining the whole day we were still jam packed by the evening. Rain is never good as no girl wants to turn up looking like a drowned cat but yet we still ended up having a great night. It was nice to

Michelle Thorne with award for Your Choice Best Selling DVD

see people who have featured on Real Couples in the past were in the running and even won.

Congratulations are in order to Michelle Thorne who won Best Selling DVD for Pushing Boundaries and also Amica Bentley aka Kinky Dirty Bitch for being the Top Webcam Performer Of The Year and if youve seen Amicas scene on the site you will not be surprised why she  won

What s particularly interesting about Michelle and Stefans win for Pushing Boundaries is that when recieving her award on the night, Michelle admitted it was the first time she had won any award ever in her 16 years being in the adult business which is not saying much about the adult business if it befell a producers association like UKAP to recognise the talents of one of our nations treasures. Ive known Michelle for over a decade nowand prbably the only person who has filmed her with all her partners in that time. Its snce she was married to Dean that they have explored sex on camera with other people of their choosing which was discussed in their podcast and Stefean deserves credit for being the guy he is to allow this to happenas is Michelle. With their video collection it seems they won on the basis of sales because thats what the buying public want to see

Real Couplees didnt fare well in the running where votes and nominations were concerned and in truth, it probably is not the best reflection of 2015 in a fast moving world where the shelf life of any title is short lived but it was still nice to see the  votes go towards it and in order for the site to be relevant in a competitive market I have considered some options which I will be looking into but at this stage I will admit, the liestyle option maybe the direction for me to head in.

Evey & Big Brother TV star Harry Amelia at the UKAP Awards

Porn awards may not mean much to anyone outside looking in, but they mean a lot to those that win them because, despite the fun people think  porn stars have doing what they do, ultimately, it is a job and sometimes doing porn is not normal at all compared to the reality of doing it for love or fun. Its a different dynamic altogether and it seems those who win awards always seem to be the most grateful to be recognised for what they do.

Another couple that I was pleased to see at the awrds that night were  Evey & Ellis who have featured a number of times in the past. They assured me they are wilder than ever these days but a lot more discrete and they have been maried over 7 years now. It seems the present trend is technology has facilitated couples making their own products with webcamming an optional extra. It does make me think that everything we have done up until now has paved the way for this to happen. So where do we go from here?

If you want to see a full list of winners, and finalists/ runners up then you can jump to the site here

To go straight to the scenes, click on the images or use the search option to find all their scenes including behind the scenes and bonus clips

To buy  Michelle Thornes winning DVD Pushing Boundaries click the link here If you want some insight into what a model thinks about winning an award then take it from Ella Hughes who talks about how she felt when she found out she won for Best Female Newcomer and what it means to her.


The Charlotte Rose Rose Show 17th August

August 26th, 2015

As an alternative to listening, this edition of Charlotte Rose pro positive sex show on on Monday nights at 9pm -11pm had special guest star Ben Dover filmed as an alternative to just listening. The best thing about this is you can see whats happening through out the show that you dont get to see listening to it which was probably why Charlotte laid on some activities for Ben Dover that were best seen than using the listeners imagination.

What has this to do with Real Couples you might ask? Well, for one I edited this edition and secondly, Charlottes show is pro positive sex, advice and an entertaining show that would appeal to couples and general adult listeners and thirdly, I support what she's doing and feel its relevance to the adult lifestyles that Real Couples includes. Supporting the show keeps it going so its a good thing

Give it a watch, its a kind of behind the scenes as it happens for the duration of the shows running time and even had some advice I found useful. For instance, Big Bob explains how you can deep throat without the gag reflex by clenching your thumb. Dont ask me how he knows this but yes Ben Dover demonstrated this with a banana and even did karaoke on the show.

Well worth a watch then? Yep!

Heavens Angel & Neil Behind The Scenes

August 17th, 2015

Click here to go to this clip on Clips4Sale

Heres another first I've put on Clips4Sale ahead of its release on Real Couples. I was never really sure how popular behind the scenes clips were as I seldom ever got feed back about them but I filmed them anyway and always watched them with interest sometimes moe than the actual sex scenes. Its quite possible that people didnt quite get it, confusing them  for the actual scenes despite being stated  clearly what they were. Maybe my scenes are so real that the behind the scenes of the scenes looks like the real scene. Yeah, that sounds confusing but there is an obvious distinction between the two.

You see me at work filming or taking pictures so you get to see me interract with couples and how I get them comfortable to do their scene. The above clip is different in that I shot this after I shot their sex scene.

I normally do stills to warm the couple up and get rid of the awkwardness that comes with turning up to film them do things they wouldnt do if they had the neigbours around for tea and a social. Once the pics out of the way and we take a break, usually the trust level is such that couples are keen to  get on with the scene realising how liberated they feel naked and doing sex in front of a guy like me who is super cool and open about it.

“Jam a finger up his ass girl! He'll come harder. Feel the power and velocity of the cum shot! Hey its ok, its not gay if its a womans finger up your

Hubby Heaven. Neils found his. Click pic to see behind the scenes

ass! Whaddya mean it feels weird!?” is the kind of conversation that is not out of place on a behind the scenes clip. In fact , conversations in session can get a bit strange and therein lies the appeal of the behind the scenes clip. You never know what you are going to get

I couldnt have wanted a better couple in Heavens Angel and Neil and as you see them here, this is after they got dressed to do the stills I missed out when they got frisky watching one of their 70 plus clips on Adult Work. They are a seriously sexy couple and whats really infectious about them is their love for each other. If I could bottle that and sell it I'd be a rich man indeed.

When you find couples as horny as these two, its easy to direct them because Neil just had a hard on for his lady that wouldnt quit. Not that you'd see it in the SFW (safe for work) preview. I had to reverse direct the stills from the positions they did on the video and if anyone saw their scene would attest to how  hot their scene was. It was so hot the scene was split into two parts because the running time might have pushed it for an audience that we've found doesnt like scenes too long and sometimes we've pushed it because our site is not all wham bam thank you mam as a lot of porn fare is with  clips sites these days.

This  clip offers an alternative view into how these scenes are made. Dont get it twisted with the real thing

Click here to see Part 1 of their sex scene on Real Couples. Click here to see the second part

Alternatively, why not scroll through and listen to the podcast of us chatting between the two scenes below.

Nina Hartley DVD by mail order

August 15th, 2015

Theyre not really related. Oops...You didnt know???

I was pleasantly surpised to see Nina Hartley on the cover of Your Choices latest mail order DVD catalogue this morning. I've been an admirer of her for years as I have seen many of her movies since I wasnt even old enough to watch them but always found her to be a stunning woman that went into her scenes with gusto.

I've seen her so many times over the years and then I got to see her in documentaries and movies. Remember Boogie Nights? That scene on the bed where her husband walks in on her fucking another guy and the guy shes riding says:

“Do you mind?”

Wiliam H Macey says:

“Do I mind??? She's my fucking wife you ass hole!!!!”

I saw that movie on the big screen and I can't praise it high enough for being the best movie ever made about the porn business between the tun of the late 70′s and 80′s. Nina was evenn working in porn back then.

Fast forward to the present, Nina Hartley is a class act. Shes a lady and should be seen as a feminist icon because she is powerful and intelligent and if I could equate her to someone mainstream then she would be the Helen Mirren of porn (although she may  be  younger than Helen Mirren)

If thats enough to get the lovers of classy mature ladies going then I can throw some eye candy  in for you lustful ladies.  James Deen is quite the

Genuine home made/ amateur contributions

hotty of choice for the ladies pushing this movie into MILF territory with its contast of young handsome gent with older mature lady. I've never really liked GILF but for lack of a better word until one comes along this will have to do.

You can buy this DVD from Your Choice  and many more from their extensive online catalogue. I've known this company for over 15 years now and they are a reliable mail order business second to none in my opinion. They produced my One Eyed Jack series so of course I'm going to be biased but they have always provided great customer service so if you order it will be sent to you in a discrete well sealed package within 2-3 days of ordering and if there is a problem with your order then they are prompt and efficient in dealing with it. I can't reccomend them highly enough. 11/10! Thats how high

If amateur UK home made porn is your thing I've also noticed that Your Choice have re-released Volumes 13 & 14 from their popular Viewers Wives series. This makes the DVD running time over 5 hours which makes great value for money. If you look carefully, you might see me on various scenes from their new re-issues of volumes 15 – 28. I think I made my first entry at volume 18 which I discussed on my Club One Eyed Jack blog.

I've also reccomended this series to couples over the years who make their own videos too. If  you ever wondered where some porn stars first started their careers it was though a series like this. Its nice to see how some started out before getting into the adult business and changed how they looked with cosmetic enhancements. Not that there isn't the odd boob job or two but natural and raw seemed to be the main order  of the day back in the mid 90s and theres plenty here between both volumes to enjoy and you never know who you might see. Now thats the real appeal of this genre.

Want more  updates on DVD releases? Follow me on Twitter: @RealCouples


Mai Bailey & Dean (Unseen Behind The Scenes clip)

August 11th, 2015

Here's an interesting preview from a clip I dug up from the vaults of Real Couples as part of my mission to show you what its like behind the scenes of a Real Couples shoot.

In case you didnt know, this clip has not been seen before until now because it was part of the shoot I didnt use when Mai and Dean had a huge argument the night before the shoot where she threw him out and failed to tell me until I was 10 minutes away from their home in Brighton. Interestingly similar to Valerie and Kai and even moe interesting is that Mai ended up being best buddies with Valerie too.

What you see here on this clip is not the half of it. The full length clip to this preview is on Clips4Sale. It will be added to the members site of Real Couples before long but if you can't wait you can purchase it directly from Clips4Sale.

Despite cancelling the scene that day shortly aftter starting we managed to get the stills done which Mai got through everyhtig in a state of mixed emotions. She was bowing hot and cold, being lving one second, professional the next, slapping Dean across the face, this that and the other. Its not until we started the scene when Dean was going down on here we can see her emtions were in conflict and she stopped and said she was not feeling this. I stopped the camera and she walked out of the room into her bedroom and closed the door leaving me and Dean in the room in silence.

I gave it a while before I knocked on the door. She didnt answer and after making it clear I was coming in I pened the door to see her in floods of tears. Now I dont know what went on the night before and finally its none of my business but if the shoot was going to be cancelled it was best it came from Mai. We sat and tlaked for a bit and I decided to call it a day as it was not working.

This comes with the job when filming Real Couples and is quite an awkward spot to be in for them as well as me as I'm sure they are embarrassed but in my mission to show Real Couples being real then this comes with the day job and is definitely rare to get this kind of footage but if take a look around the site, and the diversity of couples we have filmed, some tend to do extreme things as if they wee normal which begs the question: What is normal? I  could tell you some interesting things with other couples who are on the site but where shall I draw the line on whats real and what you might consider bad taste. Some might say once you have seen doing sexually explicit things on the internet, is there much else to be embarrassed about anyway?

I know reading this makes it more interesting than your regular porn fare. If you are a member you can see the final scene I managed to get 9 months after this shoot failed to happen and you can clearly see they had kissed and made up for this shoot it was the day after Mais birthday after all

This is not the first time Mai has been on Real Couples. She was here a few years ago with her previous husband. Check how different she was back then

Oops I just noticed one other obvious thing from watching that preview but I'll let you find out for yourself. Theres no fun in telling you everything when you can find out for yourself :-)

You can jump to our Clips4Sale page right here and buy other scenes as an alternative to membership

Am I a feminist porn producer?

August 10th, 2015

Scarlett Revell: Is she a feminist filmmaker by default?

I've noticed a trend in female producers who have entered the adult producing arena in the past year. Some have been around much longer but as I said I have noticed it more from reading artices online and it is worrying that they all subscribe to the same ideal in that they offer something different from men. Some of those differences Ive read about are:-

“more ethically produced in that they cater  to the womans desires” so its more about the men “pleasing the women”

More concern for welfare of the participants and so on and so forth. Here is an example from a feminist porn producer

As I read all this it occurred to me that I did everything mentioned and if that is what makes a feminist porn producer then by that rationale I must be a feminist porn producer too, although the diffference is women will be championed for it and men will be overlooked for just being  men.

I got enough nice comments and won awards over the years to convince me I've earned my place in being recognised in the UK adult business but what concerns me is this trend going to be used to stage a platform for some new cold war between the genders as women reclaim their sexual power through producing porn?

Then again, in a business of subdivisions there will always be a pecking order where those who feel they are better than others will not associate with those they consider beneath them which is part of the frustration and annoyance I have with the adult business where the looming shadow of censorship has become increasingly prevalent in recent years. Unity in this business has become a personal mission of mine. After all, arent we all in the same boat…Or perhaps some see themselves on yachts and others on rubber dinghys.

The feminist porn producer is not a new phenomenon. Anna Span was doing this back in the 90′s. Laura Macrow of Pure XXX is a self confessed lover of women who is a celebrated producer of gay movies and is quite an accomplished business woman and pornographer too. Suze Randall and her daughter Holly have been in this business for over 30 years. Women who have written interesting erotica and famous for it like Anais Nin at the turn of the century. The feminist pornogrpaher is nothing new. Its just those women have never used the F word to set themselves apart. They didnt need to. They were judged on the quality and consistency of their work but if you stop to think about it, they are no less feminist for making it.

Its worth saying that I have never seen any man get in the way of a woman wanting to produce  porn where laws have done  that instead. Ironically , its women that are driving that change in legislation too, using their power to deny other womens choice to do sex work and porn by regulating the law to the point it is difficult to do legally and profitably  by having to be taxed for the privilege of being allowed to operate but thats another story.

In defence of the Wham bam thank you maamLucie mentioned in her blog, men who have made those kinds of movies did so because they think

Anna Span: Got into porn to empower herself

thats what men want to see, because thats what turned them on. Isn't that what drives us all to do porn? I'm sure the rising trend of female porn producers has come out of a disappointment in women who couldnt find the porn to get them going that spurred them to get into this business with a desire to make what turns them on. The reality is, making a great movie is harder than you think and it never comes out the way you saw it in your head. What is good and what is bad porn is subjective to individual tastes and the mood you are in at the time. I'd like to think we at Real Couples have all that in our diverse selection of scenes produced over the years.

I understand what Lucie Blush and Erika Lust are talking about and the porn movement is pleased to see the rise of diverse talents in the adult producing community but why stop there? Why not the LBGT / queer contingent too? Again this is an area I've not been afraid to explore with Real Couples. All I'm saying is it cheapens the quality of our products when we resort to gender sniping with what sex makes the best porn. The only real judge of that is the customer who boys your product unless, like some producers, you are just doing it for the love of it and dont mind weathering a financial loss.

In summation, this blog entry may appear bitchy to those who choose to interpret it that way. So am I a producer of feminist porn? If I have to ask that then maybe I am.

That said, the stuff I have seen I am really impressed by and these ladies ain't joking with the craft. I believe women have a better eye for what is sensuous and erotically charged. Maybe their sexuality has been suppressed for so long that creating art with it has given their sexual personae an outlet. They are not squeamish to things that men are and perhps that is the biggest difference between us in that women can be more broader with their sexual palettes than men who are prone to tunnel vision in their tastes. With the use of DSLR cameras and lighting, the moods they evoke with scenes has produced some interesting and stimulating results. I've always believed that sex first starts in the head but sometimes I wonder if like most women I've known, if desire first starts in their heart.

Naked Truth Guy on Charlotte Rose Talks Sex

July 28th, 2015

#rosetalkssex Mondays 9-11pm

Yours truly was on The Charlotte Rose Talks Sex Show last night which was a lot of fun. I'm mainly on the 2nd hour weing my Naked Truth Guy hat but I did talk about Real Couples too. As I said i dont like to mix my politics with my porn as it can ut people off enjoying Real Couples for what it is and nor would those listening to my podcasts want to be distracted by porn. Theres a time for fucking and a time for fighting, but don't listen to the show just to hear me on it. It's important to support these shows as a platform for pro sex, advice, information and news  which is strange when you consider with all the censorship going on there's more explicit sex and violence than there ever has been but there has to be opposition to these naysayers or we will lose the right to enjoy freedoms of expression through art and entertainment and lifestyle choices. So go Team Charlotte for this. Its the start of a good thing

If you want to get on the Charlotte Rose Show then follow her on twitter or get in touch with me. I was on the show a lot sooner than I expected and will be standing in for The Big Bob who is her regular wingman on the 7th September, so support the great lady herself and keep the heart beating for pro sex platforms like Charlotte Rose Talks Sex and call in, tweet and join in the fun. It's early days but this is the start of something new and refreshing for the adult scene so make like James Brown and get on up! Get into it! Get involved.

NOTE: The player below will update to the current episode so if you want to listen to previous shows you may have to go on the Spreaker site to see if its available.


Crowd funding for Real Couples

July 21st, 2015

Click on the pic to CUM fund me!

Some people have asked when was the last time I shot a scene for Real Couples and if I'm ever going to shoot again when they see all the other things Ive been doing with the crusading and flag waving activism Ive been up to lately and most especially…

Have I got bored shooting porn?

Is you crazy or whut??? Bored shooting porn!? You have to be dead to be bored of sex, filmng it, watching it or doing it. In fact I think though my varied work in recent years shooting other things that Ive brought some new skills to the mix. I think I've got better at the filming and editing and the truth is I've missed it. I miss meeting new couples and socialising with them and getting great shoots that I know once ive left they're probably bang n it shagging each others brains out and on the mobile telling me I shouldve stuck around to film them again. Thats a good days shoot when you leave a couple feeling like that.

Truth is, part of that good feeling is actually paying couples for that they have done. Content sharing seems to be the thing to do these days and fellow producers tell me why I still pay over the odds for shoots compared to what is paid these days.

I'm old school like that. i came in to this business to make money and for a time, it was good but with the world changing to all the free porn on the tubes it wasnt long before the business mmodel changed and soon wasnt aking enough money to pay out what couples were used to me paying so here I am if you want me, if you like what I do then donate something to the fund.

I dont beleive in getting something and giving nothing so what I am offering is this: $10 gets you access to download the scene and stills exclusively for free $20 gets you access to the new scene and stills as well as one months free access to the Real Couples website.

I have no idea where this will go but the world is changing and one has to move with the times and embrace the changes tat comes wth it so here goes. Over to you. Plese give generously. If this woks out I'll be shooting new scenes on a regular basis. i have no shortage of couples wanting to be filmed but they all want paying. I cant say I blame them? Why would you be filmed, doing it for free for all to see?

Click on the pic above to go to the site and donate and lets see where this goes…Hats off for you kind sirs and ladies. Want to see me dance a jig? Thats $30 please :-)

Charlotte Rose Talks Sex

July 17th, 2015


Heres something that should tick the boxes for most couples to listen to on a Monday night. Charlotte Rose hosts a sex positive radio show that is fun, plays cool music and doesnt make you feel bad about liking sex and reviews sex toys for the boys and girls and has cool guests like Cheryl Smith talking about Sexhibition. Charlotte might sound familiar to you from reading this blog. Look back a few entries and you'll see she is the lady that instigated the face sitting protest outside parliament last December and here she is with her own radio show.

Her show started last week and if you want to get involved while the show is live via twitter and email then listen in at every Monday from 9 to 11pm

You can follow her on twitter @_Charlie_rose