Q&A: Why Do Men/ Women Cheat?

November 22nd, 2014

Could a threesome with your partner be an alternative to cheating?

I did threaten to do this and so far in 36 hours theres been no objections to me donning the white coat, thick immed spectacles and puffing casually on a pipe as I endeavour to answer that most burning of questions

Why do men or for that matter women cheat in relationships?

The answer to this is complex and my answer should not serve as a blanket one size fits all solution for both sexes. Lack of attention, lack of love. The sheer thrill of mischief and hopefully not getting caught because there is something just extra delicious in having a frivolous encounter that is hard , fast and dirty to make you feel alive and if you have a conscience, incredibly guilty depending on how much you love the partner you cheated on.

The biggest insult to the offended partner is when the  person you have cheated with is lesser in looks and therein is where logic follows that the motive was not for lack of anything at home. Some people just have a need to fuck up a picture perfect life for no real discernible reason

If you are that rare kind of person who would absolutely never cheat then you are a rare breed indeed but to be brutally truthful: Most people on the planet will! To coin the phrase “A hard on has no conscience” seems to be apt here but if you are looking beyond the surface of why men and women really cheat then it could be simply down to personal insecurities like low self esteem or a need for self affirmation that we still have what it takes to attract a partner or worse and more brutal: You simply wanted to fuck someone else who isn't  your partner!

Here's a thought. Rather than cheat, have you considered getting your partner involved and making it a threesome? While youre at it, have you eer considered getting it filmed? I know a guy  who runs a site that features liberated couples like you.

Hmm that gives me an idea for my next blog update….

Search on Real Couples network of sites for threesomes   Many to choose from Click on the pic up top  if you want to go to the Vicki, Michelle & Jim scene on the site

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Episode #237: Amy Latina & Jaz

November 19th, 2014


It seems meeting partners online through social networking and dating sites is all the rage these days. There are some exceptions to this rule. Like Jack who met Megan Coxxx at a party that got out of hand with the alcohol and had a failed gang bang where Jack ever so keen to make an impression, manned up to the task and delivered the goods. Or like Hayley & Paul who met in a mental hospital

What these couples have in common is finding out the girl they are with has done porn. Being a veteran of so many shoots I was in a position of experience to discuss this such to such a degree I consider myself a bit of an expert on the subject.

With this in mind I will endeavour to opine on those thought provoking questions that rarely if ever get asked in the hope that it may inspire discussion or even debate where dating and couples are concerned.

With Amy & Jazz their relationship appears strong and healthy because the trust and communication is there between them, even though Jazz admits at first his attraction was drawn to the possibility of sex of the standard that is expected of porn stars but knos that not to be the case now he is in the reality of a loving relationship. Instead Amy has included him in with her work ad he does all her pictures
and even stars in them with her which has enriched their relationship because no they can enjoy porn sex on camera and real sex off between themselves.

Who knows where that could lead?

UK Adult Producers Awards 2014

November 3rd, 2014

To see the FULL AWARDS VIDEO (that means with all the naughty rude bits left in) Go to: www.ukadultprodcerawards.com

I've been busy for being involved with the London Underground Party which hosted the UK Adult Producers Awards at The Loft Studios last month. It went really well considering the lull on the UK production scene the past 18 months which saw changes happening in the adult business that influenced the theme of this years party. Censorship which in turn lent itself to us calling the party by its name feeling that we were indeed being forced underground by the anti porn establishment.

To this end, it wasnt difficult to see why UKAP agreed to award Jerry Barnett a special “services to the industry award” for his work with Sex & Censorship. You can join, support and follow his campaigns at www.sexandcensorship.org and @pornpanic. I have shown support by lending my services as a cameraman and editor to some of his efforts which spawned my Naked Truth podcast which I use to disseminate industry relevant news

The aim of The London Underground party was to get as many people in the adult business to meet up, network, party and hopefully generate more business around the XBizEU event in London which took place late September over 4 days and nights. It was strictly an industry only event specifically for this. Judging by the party you might not even notice the industry needed an event for the fun we had on the night. It was all getting too serious in the wake of all the censorship, legislation and anti porn rhetoric of ISP filters and agenda driven anti porn campaigners for what is essentially all about fun. Or to use a favourite saying of mine: All this bullshit gets in the way of good quality wanking time.

Do check out our DVD selection from the winners and nominations on this awards video. If you want to buy DVDs then Your Choice is the only company I would recommend being that they are not just reliable but also fellow members of UKAP who helped sponsor the awards on the night as well

The video features the various guests who attended, the awards and after party in a nice little jam packed video running for 30 mins so kick back, relax with your favourite bevvie and enjoy.

For more info: Check the site here

Michelle Thornes new DVD: Pushing Boundaries

September 25th, 2014

Michelle Thorne in all the ways you've wanted to see her in one filthy collection

In case you missed it the first time out, the news hit that Michelle Thorne has finally given the fans their ultimate wish. To see her getting filthy in every which way with not just her man but with other men too. She gave us scenes of her first gang bang, interracial and double penetration on her own site.

Now those first time scenes are compiled onto one DVD and available as a must have collectors item exclusively through Your Choice who I can vouch for as a reliable mail order company operating for more than 20 years now. They were also the exclusive distributor for her other self produced DVD Michelle Thorne Exxxposed.

I was fortunate to bear witness to two of the shoots on this DVD when she asked me to  film her first DP with Stefan Hard and Ben Kelly and them boys showed no mercy on her pretty pussy and willing arse hole. I was the behind the scenes documentarist on her prison gang bang scene which I thought was every bit interesting as the actual scene itself as we see Michelle flitting around  looking pretty putting on her make up, joking with the boys and casual banter about all things as the boys hang around priming themselves to deal with a prime piece of porn real estate. Whatever came of that edit I have no idea. It may well be a behind the scenes edit they might update their site in future with but it offered a real behind the scenes of how these scenes come together

The fact that this DVD is compiled with the most sought after updates on her site is reason enough to own it. Get yours today.

Michelle Thorne Exxxposed

June 25th, 2014

Our latest update in the members area is a scene from Michelles site

If you love Michelle Thorne   you may be pleasantly surprised to know that she has been getting up to all sorts with different men on her site in recent months. It seems that doing this has been the source of much kerfuffle amongst fans on porn forums but I can say that I have seen it with my own eyes because I filmed for her on two of the occasions she did those scenes.

She's done interracial, a prison gang bang with three guys and two guy scenes in a variety of anal and double penetration combos. In fact, given the levels she did do you might be wondering what was left off the menu. As to the why now question on everyones mind the answer to that can be heard on the the special podcast I did on the day (see above) I shot Michelle and Stefan with Ben Kelly.

They agreed to do this podcast mainly to set the record straight about  the questions flying around on the net and I couldnt help but ask  why she did it for herself when she passed on a substantial sum to do it for a big UK company.

They admit on their  podcast  that theyve been up to all manner of naughtiness like this in their private lives for sometime  which is what interested me because I witnessed how jealous they can be  from  my last shoot with them.

What you are about to see on Michelles site is exclusive material you will not see anywhere which is why I understand she did a site for herself.

I was invited to shoot one of the scenes and another behind the scenes of the day she did a gang bang with 3 guys in a jail cell. To my mind this is a monumental occasion for Michelle Thorne fans.

Our latest update was given to me by Michelle  to promote her site given that it is a home made POV anal sex tape.  You can get this scene and a lot more at www.michellethorneexxxposed.com but don't forget you can see all her scenes since I've known her, right here including behind the scenes and extras

The site also features many of her sexy friends and has Michelle doing all sorts from role playing, fantasy, solo masturbation, lesbian, group sex, fetishes like smoking, fishnets, stockings, feet and plenty of  action involving Michelle getting hard cock  in all her beautiful holes. This site is the place to see her at her  filthiest best.

The home of Michelle Thornes exclusive content

House Wife Kelly

June 17th, 2014

One of many scenes from HouseWife Kellys site

I discovered House Wife Kelly  on twitter by her sexy pics and was excited when she sent me a DM wanting to be on Real Couples. I was disappointed and pleased in equal measure to find that she was based in the US which is a little outside of how far I'm prepared to travel getting  shoots done. However  I checked out her site and I was keen to showcase her sexy adventures  featured exclusively on her site  www.housewifekelly.com

She also has another newer site dedicated to her foot fetish exploits www.kellysfootfetish.com Both sites have preview trailers and an introductory video by Kelly Anderson herself

Her sites are like a shrine to this amazingly attractive woman with the hot swinger lifestyle and you can get a good look at this through her home made videos of which there is a large varied collection  well worth signing up for.

Check out Kellys Foot Fetish site

Her  videos range from solo masturbation, lesbian (Kelly is genuinely bi) and sex with her husbands friends or friends they met through the swingers lifestyle and the occasional group sex party with other guys and girls and even group girl on girl action. She has a huge following  on twitter. The videos are mostly filmed by her husband but occasionally she gets him in on the action too in  POV gonzo action. What really works is the variety of people who get involved so Kelly is not just the only woman you will see on her site. She is the main star though

What I loved about her videos is reality style in which they are made. She truly enjoys sex and probably gets turned on  being filmed and watched by  her husband behind the camera while she has sex with other men and women.

Kellys foot fetish site is exclusively about her feet in all variations of the fetish and she does have amazingly pretty feet. We've come to realise this is a very popular  since the internet exploded with niche sites outside of the norm and I'm sure the content here will not disappoint the most ardent fan of female feet.

We're hoping to have a sample scene from Kelly in our members area soon so look out for that but meanwhile go check her sites out  :-)





Episode #238: PussyKat & LK

June 5th, 2014

Whats the story? Morning horny!

This shoot was by and far the quickest  I've ever done. Dont get me wrong, doing shoots quickly isnt the order of the day on how I go about it. Why rush anything if you're having fun right? Unless you're really keen and I'm  guessing LK like ost blokes was a morning type of guy that wakes up with that aching hard boner wanting to bury it somewhere nice  In this case in his beautful wife, but more on that later.

I met PussyKat and LK when they came to the UK Adult Producers stand at The Venus Festival in Berlin in 2012.  This gorgeous petite figured woman was working up to solo and girl on girl only and while none of the other producers were interested because of that, I asked if she would do it with her boyfriend. With a big beaming smile on her face she said: “Of course!”  then explained they shoot for their own site and that couples work was rare, especially in France where they live.

It seems no one takes a girl serious  unless she is willing to perform with other men. I see no problem with a woman doing scenes with the man she chooses, especially if that partner is her real life one. I'd rather see a beautiful woman doing it with the man that turns her on than just doing  it for a job. If I wanted to see this kind of video then I would get those sex instruction videos for all the fake, breathy emotion they bring. So it came to be that PussyKat & LK were coming to the UK to do their own shoots that they  became the first couple I shot from meeting in Berlin and I have to say the shoot was probably the fastest I ever did in recent years. If ever. This was all without compromising the usual bolt ons that come with a scene these days.

The plan was for me to arrive at 8am on the Wednesday morning and complete the shoot and be out of the room by check out time at 11am but we were done by 9:30. I was scratching my head wondering if I got all the elements I needed to make this work and I had to admit to myself they were just really good at doing what they did. I was immediately drawn to them by the mere fact we do not have any vietnamese girls on the site. The closest I can think of is Luxi and she was from Thailand. What was really nice about them is that Pussy Kat gave me her own produced calendar as a parting gift as we left the hotel after the shoot which I thought was rather nice.

They were a really nice couple too. It occurred to me that the reason we got the shoot done so quickly in the morning was because thats the best time for  blokes sexually after a good nights rest. I'm sure Pussy Kats tight body, amazing petite bum and perky nipples with her exotic good looks had a big part to play in it too. This may also mark the first time we've had early morning glory sex on the site too.

So there you have it a few new Real Couples firsts for all you patrons with us keeping it real as we do. We do like to vary things and keep it interesting so I hope you like this update. Peace and love!

More than just a blog

April 29th, 2014

Venus 2012 from ukap admin on Vimeo.

Click on the image to go to the DVD store

Where can you get the password to play this video? Read on and all will be revealed.

We've made some new additions to the blog I want to make you aware of. In the wake of the UK Adult Awards 2013 video I wondered if people wanted to get hold of the videos that were up for awards so I included a DVD STORE page to showcase most of the DVDs and where you can get them. You can find these new addtional pages to your right in block capitals. Just click on it and it will take you to the content. Your Choice are a reputable company that have been operating for over 20 years so you can order in complete confidence that you will receive your orders within 2-3 days in discrete packaging sent within the UK. Click on the video cover and it will take you straight to the site where you can order. Its that simple

I've also included a free video page so you can have a glimpse BEHIND THE SCENES of some of the extras available inside the members area as bonus content. There seems to be some confusion I suspect mainly because all my scenes are reality based in style that it looks like behind the scenes. The difference being in the bonus content you get to see me at work talking to the couples and this is usually where I do the interviews and part of my technique in relaxing couples before the shoot  offers some insight into their personalities and relationship that a sex scene usually doesnt allow.

Another addition is LIFESTYLES & EVENTS. This is where you will find videos like the UK Adult Awards 2013 video and other videos of interest like the Venus Sex Fair which previous years, 2010 and 2011 have been available in the members area for some time already. This offers a sample of what is available in the members area in the way of bonus content.

We've got around to including the REAL COUPLES PODCASTS so you can easily listen to all the shows as we put them up by going straight to the page. Its in a nice little carousel that you can flip through and play the podcast you want to listen to. Special podcasts are recorded from events that are not exclusive to us. In the case of Michelle and Stefan Hard, this recording was done on a day I shot exclusively for Michelle Thornes website.

Whats all this for? Promotion! We believe Real Couples to be about the lifestyle and culture as well as the sex and we're opening up the blog to express this. Porn sites where couples are concerned have to be more than just porn to be interesting so if you know of any events and want to invite me to cover it then get in touch and let me know. I'm also keen to showcase couples lifestyles too. Again, if you are interested, then let me know

Episode#237: Antonia & Seth

April 22nd, 2014

Antonia & Seth share that good loving for all us mere mortals to enjoy

You can read my entry for this shoot here. What I remember most about this shoot apart from how lovely Antonia looked was how funny Seth was cracking jokes during the shoot on the day. Antonia could be described as a hot looking MILF but I would prefer to use the term cougar. Just seems she fits that word better given her womanly curves and fit looking  physique.

This shoot was particularly interesting for the fact I was granted the use of the apartment where it was shot by the owner who I dont usually have a good rapport with. Even though he did it  for them it was still nice of him knowing that it was me shooting them on the day so thanks for that if you happen to be reading this or informed of whichever the case may be.

The video went without a hitch. In fact it was a lot of fun to do because of Seths humour. He's also a big movie fan and we were exchanging dialogue from movies like Predator. He does an excellent south american female accent. A lot of  people don't see the fun that we can have behind a shoot on a good day but you can. In fact it makes for a better shoot as it creates a relaxed atmosphere and even though we had to be done by 5 so they could catch their coach back to Wales, we still managed to get all we did on the day done in time. I do remember Antonia giving Seth “the look” occasionally. You know that look  that says: “Pack it in we got a job to do” and a time to get it done in. You're more likely to spot this on the BTS (behind the scenes) clip that is now available in the members area.

Although I never get any direct feedback about this additional extra it seems they are being watched by the viewing stats. It seems BTS is all the rage now in an era when porn sites have to be more than just a porn site. In fact Ive often said the bts is more interesting in that it ads another dimension to the scenes in that they reveal a lot more that gives the sex scene some weight in terms of what their relationship is like.

I forgot to switch the camera off when I was shooting their scene so I got the same shoot with me in it filming in all positions, underneath, over, stretching and generally looking odd  which I will keep for those moments when people want to sit in on a porn shoot, Its just like being on the porn shoot but where you see the cameraman filming from all the different angles you see in the final edit.

Generally its not an easy request to do because most couples would feel really weird being sat and watched like they were in a doctors office being given marks out of 10…Unless the thought of what they were doing was turning the viewer on which is why when I did special reports like Sexcetera I had to choose couples carefully that wouldnt mind but then, it also changes the dynamic of a shoot depending on who agrees to do it.

Theres no hard and fast rules that apply to all in this game so to anyone who thinks that its just point and shoot will only realise its not always that when they end up with a crap shoot. Fun is a good start to a good shoot though.


The UKAP Awards 2013

April 8th, 2014


PASSWORD: yamamma247


The UKAP Awards took place last last November (2013) at Spearmint Rhino in Central London and had a lively  turn out given it was on a Monday rather than later in the week. Its relevance here is that I filmed and edited it. It didn't turn out bad considering I was called in late in the day and took it upon myself to film the event and thanks to Rio who volunteered to present it , the end result turned out better than I expected if you consider it was not even scripted, so the night was about as real as you could get impromptu.

Rio got fetish/ fashionista designer House Of Harlot to kindly donate the dress for the occasion hence why it got a screen credit. Being a member of UKAP I've often wondered why we didnt do more with the video of these events so here I am doing precisely that to see if it works. If you see some of the videos on here and want to buy them then you can do so via Your Choice. Just click this link to take you to my store store page and choose from a selection of films featured on the night.

Where was I when this girl was around???

You might have noticed that our Rio Lee has come leaps and bounds since her first foray into porn through Real Couples. Yep she debuted here on this very site and it took her another three years to decide on actually working for other companies and managed to avoid doing the very thing she did happily on her first video…Anal. I was curious to know why we were lucky to get this to which her response was, she didnt do porn for the money. She did it for fun. Thats not to say she didnt enjoy the studs she is seen with nowadays on some of her scenes done (mainly) overseas (and a few here for some companies).

Rio is definitely one of the jewels in our crown and we hope and wish to see the day she works that red carpet for the AVN which was her  motive to present the video on the night. She would have done the award presenting on stage too but that was already arranged by the organiser  already with Sarah Kelly and Sofia Rae.

I deliberately took a back seat by not submitting Real Couples for the award since I didnt win anything last year I took it as a hint that I'm a bit played out now and that should clear the way for new talent to shine since I've been doing it for over 10 years already and used to winning more than one award per event so I'm damned either way if I win as it looks like the event are favouring me because I'm a member of the association. Contrary to what some people think about these events, UKAP is the only award that is decided by judges on the merits of the product submitted rather than by the sponsors of the event, so to win a UKAP award was like being given the nod of approval and pat on the back of acceptance by ones peers rather than like buying your award to make it worth turning up on the night like some events I could mention….but wont

All in all it was a fun night  with fun people and this video should give you some insight to what its like at these events now UKAP has relaxed its policy to include the public. For years the girls threatened not to turn up because of  incidents with wandering hands and alcohol fuelled advances from men  who thought the girls were game on by virtue of being porn stars meaning, they must be bang up for  with anyone right? WRONG! Thats just the illusion stupid blokes have bought into.

That aside, the fans that turned out were largely decent and courteous if not a bit star struck on occasion to meet the stars of their wrist action fantasies in the flesh. Or maybe it had as much to do with the establishment we were at providing security.  If this one was pretty good we hope 2014 is better. If it looks like the same people always winning then that should be the benchmark for UK producers to aspire to be better than next year and to be fair ther has been a lot of upheaval facing the adult business that changed the landscape a bit but I wont ruin your fun going into it. Sit back and enjoy the video above and dont forget, if you see a DVD or few you like you can click on this link to take you straight to that page and you can buy them off site.