As an alternative to listening, this edition of Charlotte Rose pro positive sex show on www.FM1FM.com on Monday nights at 9pm -11pm had special guest star Ben Dover filmed as an alternative to just listening. The best thing about this is you can see whats happening through out the show that you dont get to see listening to it which was probably why Charlotte laid on some activities for Ben Dover that were best seen than using the listeners imagination.
What has this to do with Real Couples you might ask? Well, for one I edited this edition and secondly, Charlottes show is pro positive sex, advice and an entertaining show that would appeal to couples and general adult listeners and thirdly, I support what she's doing and feel its relevance to the adult lifestyles that Real Couples includes. Supporting the show keeps it going so its a good thing
Give it a watch, its a kind of behind the scenes as it happens for the duration of the shows running time and even had some advice I found useful. For instance, Big Bob explains how you can deep throat without the gag reflex by clenching your thumb. Dont ask me how he knows this but yes Ben Dover demonstrated this with a banana and even did karaoke on the show.
Heres another first I've put on Clips4Sale ahead of its release on Real Couples. I was never really sure how popular behind the scenes clips were as I seldom ever got feed back about them but I filmed them anyway and always watched them with interest sometimes moe than the actual sex scenes. Its quite possible that people didnt quite get it, confusing them for the actual scenes despite being stated clearly what they were. Maybe my scenes are so real that the behind the scenes of the scenes looks like the real scene. Yeah, that sounds confusing but there is an obvious distinction between the two.
You see me at work filming or taking pictures so you get to see me interract with couples and how I get them comfortable to do their scene. The above clip is different in that I shot this after I shot their sex scene.
I normally do stills to warm the couple up and get rid of the awkwardness that comes with turning up to film them do things they wouldnt do if they had the neigbours around for tea and a social. Once the pics out of the way and we take a break, usually the trust level is such that couples are keen to get on with the scene realising how liberated they feel naked and doing sex in front of a guy like me who is super cool and open about it.
“Jam a finger up his ass girl! He'll come harder. Feel the power and velocity of the cum shot! Hey its ok, its not gay if its a womans finger up your
Hubby Heaven. Neils found his. Click pic to see behind the scenes
ass! Whaddya mean it feels weird!?” is the kind of conversation that is not out of place on a behind the scenes clip. In fact , conversations in session can get a bit strange and therein lies the appeal of the behind the scenes clip. You never know what you are going to get
I couldnt have wanted a better couple in Heavens Angel and Neil and as you see them here, this is after they got dressed to do the stills I missed out when they got frisky watching one of their 70 plus clips on Adult Work. They are a seriously sexy couple and whats really infectious about them is their love for each other. If I could bottle that and sell it I'd be a rich man indeed.
When you find couples as horny as these two, its easy to direct them because Neil just had a hard on for his lady that wouldnt quit. Not that you'd see it in the SFW (safe for work) preview. I had to reverse direct the stills from the positions they did on the video and if anyone saw their scene would attest to how hot their scene was. It was so hot the scene was split into two parts because the running time might have pushed it for an audience that we've found doesnt like scenes too long and sometimes we've pushed it because our site is not all wham bam thank you mam as a lot of porn fare is with clips sites these days.
This clip offers an alternative view into how these scenes are made. Dont get it twisted with the real thing
Theyre not really related. Oops...You didnt know???
I was pleasantly surpised to see Nina Hartley on the cover of Your Choices latest mail order DVD catalogue this morning. I've been an admirer of her for years as I have seen many of her movies since I wasnt even old enough to watch them but always found her to be a stunning woman that went into her scenes with gusto.
I've seen her so many times over the years and then I got to see her in documentaries and movies. Remember Boogie Nights? That scene on the bed where her husband walks in on her fucking another guy and the guy shes riding says:
“Do you mind?”
Wiliam H Macey says:
“Do I mind??? She's my fucking wife you ass hole!!!!”
I saw that movie on the big screen and I can't praise it high enough for being the best movie ever made about the porn business between the tun of the late 70′s and 80′s. Nina was evenn working in porn back then.
Fast forward to the present, Nina Hartley is a class act. Shes a lady and should be seen as a feminist icon because she is powerful and intelligent and if I could equate her to someone mainstream then she would be the Helen Mirren of porn (although she may be younger than Helen Mirren)
If thats enough to get the lovers of classy mature ladies going then I can throw some eye candy in for you lustful ladies. James Deen is quite the
Genuine home made/ amateur contributions
hotty of choice for the ladies pushing this movie into MILF territory with its contast of young handsome gent with older mature lady. I've never really liked GILF but for lack of a better word until one comes along this will have to do.
You can buy this DVD from Your Choice and many more from their extensive online catalogue. I've known this company for over 15 years now and they are a reliable mail order business second to none in my opinion. They produced my One Eyed Jack series so of course I'm going to be biased but they have always provided great customer service so if you order it will be sent to you in a discrete well sealed package within 2-3 days of ordering and if there is a problem with your order then they are prompt and efficient in dealing with it. I can't reccomend them highly enough. 11/10! Thats how high
If amateur UK home made porn is your thing I've also noticed that Your Choice have re-released Volumes 13 & 14 from their popular Viewers Wives series. This makes the DVD running time over 5 hours which makes great value for money. If you look carefully, you might see me on various scenes from their new re-issues of volumes 15 – 28. I think I made my first entry at volume 18 which I discussed on my Club One Eyed Jack blog.
I've also reccomended this series to couples over the years who make their own videos too. If you ever wondered where some porn stars first started their careers it was though a series like this. Its nice to see how some started out before getting into the adult business and changed how they looked with cosmetic enhancements. Not that there isn't the odd boob job or two but natural and raw seemed to be the main order of the day back in the mid 90s and theres plenty here between both volumes to enjoy and you never know who you might see. Now thats the real appeal of this genre.
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Here's an interesting preview from a clip I dug up from the vaults of Real Couples as part of my mission to show you what its like behind the scenes of a Real Couples shoot.
In case you didnt know, this clip has not been seen before until now because it was part of the shoot I didnt use when Mai and Dean had a huge argument the night before the shoot where she threw him out and failed to tell me until I was 10 minutes away from their home in Brighton. Interestingly similar to Valerie and Kai and even moe interesting is that Mai ended up being best buddies with Valerie too.
What you see here on this clip is not the half of it. The full length clip to this preview is on Clips4Sale. It will be added to the members site of Real Couples before long but if you can't wait you can purchase it directly from Clips4Sale.
Despite cancelling the scene that day shortly aftter starting we managed to get the stills done which Mai got through everyhtig in a state of mixed emotions. She was bowing hot and cold, being lving one second, professional the next, slapping Dean across the face, this that and the other. Its not until we started the scene when Dean was going down on here we can see her emtions were in conflict and she stopped and said she was not feeling this. I stopped the camera and she walked out of the room into her bedroom and closed the door leaving me and Dean in the room in silence.
I gave it a while before I knocked on the door. She didnt answer and after making it clear I was coming in I pened the door to see her in floods of tears. Now I dont know what went on the night before and finally its none of my business but if the shoot was going to be cancelled it was best it came from Mai. We sat and tlaked for a bit and I decided to call it a day as it was not working.
This comes with the job when filming Real Couples and is quite an awkward spot to be in for them as well as me as I'm sure they are embarrassed but in my mission to show Real Couples being real then this comes with the day job and is definitely rare to get this kind of footage but if take a look around the site, and the diversity of couples we have filmed, some tend to do extreme things as if they wee normal which begs the question: What is normal? I could tell you some interesting things with other couples who are on the site but where shall I draw the line on whats real and what you might consider bad taste. Some might say once you have seen doing sexually explicit things on the internet, is there much else to be embarrassed about anyway?
I know reading this makes it more interesting than your regular porn fare. If you are a member you can see the final scene I managed to get 9 months after this shoot failed to happen and you can clearly see they had kissed and made up for this shoot it was the day after Mais birthday after all
Scarlett Revell: Is she a feminist filmmaker by default?
I've noticed a trend in female producers who have entered the adult producing arena in the past year. Some have been around much longer but as I said I have noticed it more from reading artices online and it is worrying that they all subscribe to the same ideal in that they offer something different from men. Some of those differences Ive read about are:-
“more ethically produced in that they cater to the womans desires” so its more about the men “pleasing the women”
As I read all this it occurred to me that I did everything mentioned and if that is what makes a feminist porn producer then by that rationale I must be a feminist porn producer too, although the diffference is women will be championed for it and men will be overlooked for just being men.
I got enough nice comments and won awards over the years to convince me I've earned my place in being recognised in the UK adult business but what concerns me is this trend going to be used to stage a platform for some new cold war between the genders as women reclaim their sexual power through producing porn?
Then again, in a business of subdivisions there will always be a pecking order where those who feel they are better than others will not associate with those they consider beneath them which is part of the frustration and annoyance I have with the adult business where the looming shadow of censorship has become increasingly prevalent in recent years. Unity in this business has become a personal mission of mine. After all, arent we all in the same boat…Or perhaps some see themselves on yachts and others on rubber dinghys.
The feminist porn producer is not a new phenomenon. Anna Span was doing this back in the 90′s. Laura Macrow of Pure XXX is a self confessed lover of women who is a celebrated producer of gay movies and is quite an accomplished business woman and pornographer too. Suze Randall and her daughter Holly have been in this business for over 30 years. Women who have written interesting erotica and famous for it like Anais Nin at the turn of the century. The feminist pornogrpaher is nothing new. Its just those women have never used the F word to set themselves apart. They didnt need to. They were judged on the quality and consistency of their work but if you stop to think about it, they are no less feminist for making it.
Its worth saying that I have never seen any man get in the way of a woman wanting to produce porn where laws have done that instead. Ironically , its women that are driving that change in legislation too, using their power to deny other womens choice to do sex work and porn by regulating the law to the point it is difficult to do legally and profitably by having to be taxed for the privilege of being allowed to operate but thats another story.
In defence of the Wham bam thank you maamLucie mentioned in her blog, men who have made those kinds of movies did so because they think
Anna Span: Got into porn to empower herself
thats what men want to see, because thats what turned them on. Isn't that what drives us all to do porn? I'm sure the rising trend of female porn producers has come out of a disappointment in women who couldnt find the porn to get them going that spurred them to get into this business with a desire to make what turns them on. The reality is, making a great movie is harder than you think and it never comes out the way you saw it in your head. What is good and what is bad porn is subjective to individual tastes and the mood you are in at the time. I'd like to think we at Real Couples have all that in our diverse selection of scenes produced over the years.
I understand what Lucie Blush and Erika Lust are talking about and the porn movement is pleased to see the rise of diverse talents in the adult producing community but why stop there? Why not the LBGT / queer contingent too? Again this is an area I've not been afraid to explore with Real Couples. All I'm saying is it cheapens the quality of our products when we resort to gender sniping with what sex makes the best porn. The only real judge of that is the customer who boys your product unless, like some producers, you are just doing it for the love of it and dont mind weathering a financial loss.
In summation, this blog entry may appear bitchy to those who choose to interpret it that way. So am I a producer of feminist porn? If I have to ask that then maybe I am.
That said, the stuff I have seen I am really impressed by and these ladies ain't joking with the craft. I believe women have a better eye for what is sensuous and erotically charged. Maybe their sexuality has been suppressed for so long that creating art with it has given their sexual personae an outlet. They are not squeamish to things that men are and perhps that is the biggest difference between us in that women can be more broader with their sexual palettes than men who are prone to tunnel vision in their tastes. With the use of DSLR cameras and lighting, the moods they evoke with scenes has produced some interesting and stimulating results. I've always believed that sex first starts in the head but sometimes I wonder if like most women I've known, if desire first starts in their heart.
Yours truly was on The Charlotte Rose Talks Sex Show last night which was a lot of fun. I'm mainly on the 2nd hour weing my Naked Truth Guy hat but I did talk about Real Couples too. As I said i dont like to mix my politics with my porn as it can ut people off enjoying Real Couples for what it is and nor would those listening to my podcasts want to be distracted by porn. Theres a time for fucking and a time for fighting, but don't listen to the show just to hear me on it. It's important to support these shows as a platform for pro sex, advice, information and news which is strange when you consider with all the censorship going on there's more explicit sex and violence than there ever has been but there has to be opposition to these naysayers or we will lose the right to enjoy freedoms of expression through art and entertainment and lifestyle choices. So go Team Charlotte for this. Its the start of a good thing
If you want to get on the Charlotte Rose Show then follow her on twitter or get in touch with me. I was on the show a lot sooner than I expected and will be standing in for The Big Bob who is her regular wingman on the 7th September, so support the great lady herself and keep the heart beating for pro sex platforms like Charlotte Rose Talks Sex and call in, tweet and join in the fun. It's early days but this is the start of something new and refreshing for the adult scene so make like James Brown and get on up! Get into it! Get involved.
NOTE: The player below will update to the current episode so if you want to listen to previous shows you may have to go on the Spreaker site to see if its available.
Some people have asked when was the last time I shot a scene for Real Couples and if I'm ever going to shoot again when they see all the other things Ive been doing with the crusading and flag waving activism Ive been up to lately and most especially…
Have I got bored shooting porn?
Is you crazy or whut??? Bored shooting porn!? You have to be dead to be bored of sex, filmng it, watching it or doing it. In fact I think though my varied work in recent years shooting other things that Ive brought some new skills to the mix. I think I've got better at the filming and editing and the truth is I've missed it. I miss meeting new couples and socialising with them and getting great shoots that I know once ive left they're probably bang n it shagging each others brains out and on the mobile telling me I shouldve stuck around to film them again. Thats a good days shoot when you leave a couple feeling like that.
Truth is, part of that good feeling is actually paying couples for that they have done. Content sharing seems to be the thing to do these days and fellow producers tell me why I still pay over the odds for shoots compared to what is paid these days.
I'm old school like that. i came in to this business to make money and for a time, it was good but with the world changing to all the free porn on the tubes it wasnt long before the business mmodel changed and soon wasnt aking enough money to pay out what couples were used to me paying so here I am if you want me, if you like what I do then donate something to the fund.
I dont beleive in getting something and giving nothing so what I am offering is this: $10 gets you access to download the scene and stills exclusively for free $20 gets you access to the new scene and stills as well as one months free access to the Real Couples website.
I have no idea where this will go but the world is changing and one has to move with the times and embrace the changes tat comes wth it so here goes. Over to you. Plese give generously. If this woks out I'll be shooting new scenes on a regular basis. i have no shortage of couples wanting to be filmed but they all want paying. I cant say I blame them? Why would you be filmed, doing it for free for all to see?
Click on the pic above to go to the site and donate and lets see where this goes…Hats off for you kind sirs and ladies. Want to see me dance a jig? Thats $30 please
Heres something that should tick the boxes for most couples to listen to on a Monday night. Charlotte Rose hosts a sex positive radio show that is fun, plays cool music and doesnt make you feel bad about liking sex and reviews sex toys for the boys and girls and has cool guests like Cheryl Smith talking about Sexhibition. Charlotte might sound familiar to you from reading this blog. Look back a few entries and you'll see she is the lady that instigated the face sitting protest outside parliament last December and here she is with her own radio show.
Her show started last week and if you want to get involved while the show is live via twitter and email then listen in at fm1fm.comevery Monday from 9 to 11pm
Satin Bloom & Cage met in the adult business and have been married for years
It might come as a surprise to regular normal folk (what we in the world of porn refer to as civilians) that there is a growing number of real couples who work with each other doing porn. Sometimes at the exclusion and sometimes with the inclusion of others. Real Couples is based on this premise, despite criticism from some that couples who do porn are some how less real than those that do it on an amateur not for profit basis.
What does that even mean these days when civilians are just as surgically and cosmetically enhanced as hard core porn stars? What does it mean to perform professionally? I've seen couples who never did porn before turn out scenes to rival those who do it for a living and we got them right here on Real Couples too!
Its fair to assume that the relationship dynamic of couples is based on solid foundations of trust and communication, the two most important elements that make for a long term relationship.
If you look past the traditionally accepted notion of what a relationship is supposed to be, you will see (or at least I have observed) just how a healthy sex life is important to the longevity of a relationship and many of the couples I have filmed over the years have proved what I have observed and shared here with you on this blog.
Now I'm seeing podcasts from couples, swingers and hot wife lifestyle couples coming up left right and centre. Swinging is a big thing now nore than ever with the likes of dating apps like Tinder and all the while I can't help but think that people like myself who have
Tammie was a porn star who found a civilian boyfriend and got married to him
filmed porn are an integral part of this modern thinking. Or is it the other way round? For a while I felt I was documenting the way things were and while I don't believe all couples adopt this modern swinging approach to relationships I will admit that the kind of couples that I have featured on this site reflected the demographic that are most likely to do it. Why not? Its the new rock n roll thing to do but many seem to play it safe that doing it with your partner isnt really porn. Tulisa Constavlos and Paris Hilton anyone? Porn is pon is porn depending on the end use viewing it who is usually watching it because of seeing soething intimate that theyre not supposed to see. Isnt that the main appeal of porn?
Sometimes its hard to seperate porn people from everyday folk because essentially that is what they are beyond the colourful stage names, big boob jobs and pumped lips they have adopted to have some semblance of a normal life away from porn. Unless you believe people who do porn spend all their days having sex like porn stars doing nothing else like the laundry, washing the car and walking the dog like regular folks do
On the flip side, working exclusively with your partner can also limit your work with producers who dont always like working with couples because they dont want to work with a woman who has sex with only her man. Real porn stars fuck all kinds of guys and girls. So if couples just rely on being in the adult
US couple Childhood sweethearts who turned their video collection into a website
business as their main source of income they will have to be flexible when shooting for companies which is why platforms like Adult Work and Clips4Sale have become very popular as a one stop shop for couples to sell items, pictures, create and innteract with a fan base and do webcam shows.
Porn has gone mainstream even if it hasnt got the mainstream acceptance we'd like. Try setting up a bank account and telling your bank manager what you do for a living and you will understand the reason why you have to be creative with how you describe what you do for a living.
That said, not many couples give that much thought beyond the present to the future if their relationship was to end. What is the agreement in place for such an eventuality? Shut the account down and dump everything or continue to be partners at the risk of upsetting future partners knowing there is content of a highy intimate nature of yourself still available on the internet for people like your friends and family to view despite trying to move on with your life?
These are the kind of things I refer to when discussing with colleagues in the business, the difference between a job and a way of life and how porn inevitably becomes your life once you are in it. There seems to be a bit more acceptance if you are a married couple. Like its an escape from the norm thing to do that eccentric couples do to spice up their relationship but the best thing about couples doing porn is that it colours their sex lives with something interesting that keeps their relationship exciting, so when it comes to having a quicky in the morning and a peck on the cheek it's ok because it hasnt become the norm when you have a porn star lifestyle to fall back on.
Michelle & Stefan create content exclusively for their site and enjoy the lifestyle too
If there was a practical reason behind the decision to work with your partner then it wasnt just about love and trust but by working with your partner greatly reduces the
risk of STDs which is an occupational hazard and a main reason for porn stars leaving the business suddenly and unannounced.
The choice to do porn is a lot easier when both partners have met in the business but it seems the biggest killer of any relationship is jealousy. You can act like its work allyou like but the reality to those who are new to the business is quite different to seeing their partner at work intimately involved with another person. Occasionally you get a couple who are equally matched in getting their freak on and in that honesty these couples are the most fun to work with but on the other side of this, a couple who are not sure about what they are doing , dogged by difficulties performing with each other, very seldom last if the chemistry between them is not there or imbalanced
Mia Malkova & Danny Mountain by trade Mr & Mrs after work
in favour of one more than the other. It has been said to me in the past that it is quite difficult working with your partner because real feelings are involved
Theres no hard and fast rules other than good manners, respect and understanding in working with couples and one can see why producers do not prefer this if given the choice for fear of couples bringing a days shoot to a halt with personal domestic issues. There are exceptional cases when working with couples are considered. For instance both are very good looking but even then this can get you so far before the work dries up
Every couple on Real Couples brings an interesting dynamic to their scene and this is perhaps why people who dont know, think couples porn is boring. On the contrary they are more interesting because they bring the reality of themselves into the scene and like everyone has their own fingerprint, this is the heart of what keeps Real Couples interesting when the go off to other sites and do porn its like a different experience adding to the fantasy that keeps their love alive…Or so I would like to believe.
Watching the above video reminds me that there are people that seem to think that sex between loving couples end once they start a family. Not so. The above video shows the modern attitude towards sex and most definitely the making money from it does not denigrate the act of making love between couples. Most of us prefer fucking because the idea of loving just takes the hard edge off porn and makes it too nicey nicey to wank off too, if the model majority of porns end users are anything to go by. Its this crowd that the few bad boy entrepreneurs of porns hey day made their porn for the discernig cllector looking for something harde, edgier, that pushed the envelope that precipotated the baclash of censorship we soo dont enjoy today with regulations and law changes aplenty.
If anything, the rse of couples doing porn to make ends meet should say something about the way the system has reduced people to considering it as a vable option, as well as the technology having facilitated this and the internet playing a big part in changing the world we live in.
I know plenty couples who do this for money. I'm sure there was one that got pregnant on my shoot (but lets not go there) Could you imagine your mum and dad doing this? (shudder) but the truth is, this will become so normalised by everyone doing it that no one will think that much about it by the time the next generation grow into adults. If you stop to think about it, it isnt that bad. If anything it will change our perceptions on how we see sex and relationships and its too soon to say if it will be for the worse but freedom of information comes at a price. It just depends if we can afford to move with it or regress backwards and be against it.
My personal take on it all is if we're all busy fucking then we're spending less time warring and that has to be a good thing.
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